Coming Home: An Invitation to Join God's Family
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Rushing off to work ... coming home weary... paying the
bills ... raising the kids. It often seems like an endless cycle. But during the
quiet moments, do you dare to be honest with yourself? Have you ever wondered,
"Is this all there is to life? Is it merely a 70-year cycle of eating and
sleeping, of getting and spending, of growing older and older?"
If your heart longs for something or someone that will give meaning to your existence,
this article can help. The following takes a straightforward look at the things
we value in this world and shows that there is much more.
There is a way to live that brings satisfaction at our inner most levels. You'll learn that
nothing is more valuable than a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. And by
joining God's family, we can have a first-class quality life — a winning
life.
It has been nearly two years, but in just minutes he'd be back, and he
wondered what it would be like. He had written ahead — they knew he was coming.
In his memory, he heard the squeak of Dad's chair, the metal clang of spoon and
pan in the kitchen, the crackle and thump as a log slipped in the fireplace. He
could almost smell the sweet aroma of dinner nearly done. Then Mom would call,
and everyone would scramble to the table.
It was good then. He belonged. But now?
Tom's sigh broke the daydream as he turned into the lane.
Familiar sights and sounds engulfed him. Ten strides ... three stairs ... warped
wooden porch floor stretching to the white clapboard walls ... and the creaky
swing.
He rang the bell. The door swung open, and loving arms pulled him
in and close. Then with his tears soaking into her white sweater, from beneath
gray hair and wrinkled brow came the words he longed to hear. "Welcome home,
son, welcome home!"
All people long for a place where they are welcome,
accepted, loved. Where they don't have to pretend or be on their guard. Where
just being there is a cause for celebration. Warm, relaxing, open — that's home.
Or at least that's the Norman Rockwell portrayal of it.
Less Than Perfect
But not all homecomings evoke such memories. And while coming
home often brings high expectations, it rarely lives up to its advertising.
Cousin Cheryl is late and the turkey dries out. Nephew Norbert gets violently
ill at the table. Uncle Arthur and Brother Bob argue about foreign policy. A
giant dustball rolls out from under the sofa at Aunt Agatha's feet, and Sister
Samantha points out to Mom that her children are more polite than yours.
Much worse, of course, are homes that do not provide the loving
support they should. A frightened boy listens from beneath his bedcovers as the
shouting of his angry parents shatters the night air. A young girl dreads the
end of the school day because Mom will almost certainly be drunk again. A
soldier or prisoner fears that during his absence his wife has been unfaithful
and will not take him back. A single mother tries to shut out the department
store Christmas music this first December since her divorce and her mother's
death. And a bag lady has no place, not even a hotel room, to call
home.
When home does not live up to our dreams or expectations, we grow
restless. We long for relationships, connections, continuity, understanding,
communication — things we imagine people had in abundance a hundred years ago
before big corporations, automobiles and housing developments made it easy for
extended families to fragment and scatter across the country. We feel isolated
and alone.
A Long Way From Home
We may be lonely, but we are
not alone. A lot of people today feel far from home. Perhaps they are divorced
or widowed. Maybe they live hundreds of miles from their parents, siblings and
cousins. Even if they love their families dearly, they are often so busy
working, commuting and running errands that they have little time to spend with
the people closest to them. They long for home and family, a place to be and
become. But the kind of home they crave seems as improbable as a 1945
Saturday Evening Post cover.
It's harsh, but true: Nobody ever
finds, inherits or lives in a perfect home where the people always listen to and
understand each other, take care of each other, or even like each other. And yet
most of us keep looking for just that — a place where we are appreciated, where
we can be comfortable, where we can be truly ourselves.
Are we doomed to a lifetime of searching without finding? Must we become disillusioned and
cynical? Or are we perhaps, in words of the song, "looking for love in all the
wrong places"?
Restless Hearts
More than 1,500 years ago, St.
Augustine diagnosed the situation of many searching people. He knew from
personal experience what it meant to be far from family, to try-and fail-to find
love in a chain of short relationships, to feel as if nobody really cared.
Speaking to God, he said, "You have made us for Yourself, and our hearts are
restless until they find their rest in You."
If St. Augustine was right,
our unfulfilled longings might not be satisfied even if we were able to stage a
whole succession of perfect homecomings, flawless Thanksgiving dinners and
harmonious family reunions. As wonderful as home can be, even the best of homes
cannot bring peace to our restless hearts. Always we need something deeper and
broader than the love of a father or mother, brother or sister, husband or wife.
We would like to have parents, siblings and spouses who are always
there for us and who are able to meet all our needs: provide for us, listen to
us, care for us, counsel us, discipline us, protect us and enjoy us. We'd like
these "superpersons" to know us inside and out, to love us all the same, to give
to us generously and to keep all their promises. We don't want these people to
ever grow old or get sick or die. We want them to share our experiences, stick
up for us, teach us what they know and never say "I told you so."
Impossible? It sounds like it. But God has all these characteristics.
What is more, He strongly desires to make all people part of His family — a
family that will one day be perfect and last forever.
The Ideal Father
Let's back up for a minute. To understand God's invitation to join
His family, it's important to know who God is. The Bible paints this picture of
Him:
In many ways, God is like an excellent human father. He loves His
children and is pleased when they love Him in return. He provides for them and
protects them. He gives guidance and, when necessary, punishment. He understands
their limitations, though, and is quick to forgive. Above all, He is generous
(the Bible calls His generosity grace).
In other ways, God is far greater
than any human father could ever be. For one thing, He is all powerful. Nothing
can keep Him from helping His children. For another, He is all-loving. In God
there is no selfishness or pride to interfere with His relationship with His
children. God is also all-knowing, so His guidance is completely worthy of
trust. Since God is present everywhere at once, His children never have to
strike out on their own, and since He is eternal, they never fear being abandoned.
Why Do People Suffer?
The Bible's description of God
the Father is most attractive, but it raises some very difficult questions. If a
heavenly Father really exists, and if He really satisfies people's deepest
longings, why is the world full of unhappy people? What kind of father would let
his children get hurt, suffer and die? How can anyone watch the evening news and
seriously say that the universe is run by a loving Father?
God is the Supreme Ruler, but He is not the only supernatural power in the universe. Many
millennia ago, one of His angels rebelled against Him. The rebel, often called
Satan ("the accuser"), wanted to be king of the universe himself. To limit
Satan's destruction, God banished him from heaven, but He allowed him to try
ruling one little corner of the universe — a planet God created called earth.
God didn't give Satan complete control of earth, however. People would be
allowed to choose whether to follow Satan or to follow God.
One of the first stories in the Bible tells about mankind's choice to follow Satan. Through
Adam and Eve's choice to believe Satan instead of God, earth gained some new
experiences that God never intended for it: Pain. Illness. Famine. War.
Oppression. Perversion. Murder. These are Satan's contributions, not God's.
Love Versus Tyranny
If God is a powerful and loving
Father, why doesn't He do something about the mess on earth?
Actually, He has already done something amazing. God has always ruled the universe through
love; Satan has tried to rule through tyranny. God had no intention of using
Satan's methods. He would not force people to follow Him. Instead, God would
offer them a way of escape from Satan's clutches, and to make their escape
possible, He would sacrifice Himself.
Once the first humans chose Satan
instead of God, there was no turning back. They would have to die, because death
is always the result of choosing Satan. God is a life-giver, but Satan can
neither create life nor sustain it. Sadly, Adam and Eve's choice was passed on
to everything and everyone else on earth. From their day to ours, death has
touched the entire human race.
But God stepped in to deliver the human
race from the effects of sin and death.
Choose Life
The Bible's New Testament tells the story of God's love for His children: God sent His Son
to earth as a human being to undo Adam's tragic mistake, to choose life for the
human race where Adam chose death!
Jesus, who was at the same time
completely man and entirely God, was born to the virgin Mary, worked quietly in
a carpenter's shop until He turned 30, and then began a three-year career of
teaching and healing. The crowds loved Him, but the religious and political
leaders were afraid of His growing influence. They conspired to have Him
executed one Friday afternoon in the spring, and Jesus died on a cross just
outside the capital city limits.
The religious and political leaders
would have been happy if the story had ended there, but it didn't. Early Sunday
morning, Jesus burst back into life again and walked out of the tomb, right past
the soldiers posted by the entrance to prevent Jesus' friends from stealing His
body. (See Matthew 28:1-7.)
He appeared to His closest friends, to His
family, to several groups of awestruck followers — in all, to hundreds of people
who were well aware that He had died a horrible death only days
before.
Christians understand that Jesus died in their place, that in
some indescribable way He took the sins of the world on His shoulders and
suffered for them as if He, not Adam, had chosen to follow Satan. Jesus died the
death that Adam, and all the rest of us, deserve.
When Jesus rose from
the dead, He broke Satan's powers over the human race. No longer were people
forced to choose death. No longer was the planet certain to decay and die. Jesus
brought life, and He offered it — in fact, He still offers it — to anyone who
has faith in Him: "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only
Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life"
(John 3:16).
Coming Home
What is faith? It is knowing that
things are not as they seem, that God has won the war with Satan, that it is now
possible to choose life instead of death, that God is indeed a loving Father who
plans to gather His family around Him one day.
Even more, faith is a willingness to take the first step toward Jesus, to trust that His love is an
accurate reflection of God's love, to begin following in His footsteps and
loving other people with a love like His.
A Christian is simply a person
who has felt a need to come home, who has seen the loving Father through Jesus,
who has said No to Satan and death, and Yes to Jesus invitation to
choose life — unending life that begins now and continues forever with God. The
Bible teaches that we are present — alive — spiritually with God at the moment
we die, and that one day we will be alive in body again, as well. That is why we
say Christians have unending life.
What Must I Do?"
Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I
will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me" (Revelation
3:20).
I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the
Father except though me" (John 14:6).
For it is by grace you have
been saved, through faith — and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God
— not by works, so that no one can boast" (Ephesians 2:8-9).
You can become a Christian right now — you can come home — by opening the door to Christ
and trusting Him as Lord and Savior. It is so easy a child can do it, yet, at
the same time, it is hard because we first have to realize that we cannot do it
on our own. Jesus said that to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, a person must be
willing to humble himselft as a child, and only then will God receive him.
How about you? Are you ready to make this commitment? All it takes are
three simple steps. But first, you should stop and think about the cost of
serving Christ and consider these steps very carefully.
1) Acknowledge that you are a helpless sinner separated from God. "For all
have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Romans 3:23). All of us
were created to have fellowship with God, but, because of humankind's stubborn
self-will, we have chosen to go our own independent way. No amount of good deeds
on our part can win God's favor. Agree with God that you are a lost sinner
unable to save yourself. You need a Savior to bring yourself back to God.
Understand that God is holy. No sin will ever enter His presence, for
"righteousness andjudgment are the habitation of His throne" (Psalm
97:2).
2) Agree that Jesus Christ is the only provision for your
salvation. Through the Lord, you can know and experience God's love and plan
for your life. You must believe that Jesus Christ died for your sins, and know
that He wants to be your Lord as well as your Savior. He wants to take
possession of your heart and rule in it so that from now on, His Word is law to
you. "As many as received Him, to them He gave power to become the sons of
God, even to them that believe on His name." (John 1: 12).
3) Truly desire to receive Jesus Christ as your Savior and ask Him to come into
your heart. You should understand that when you receive Christ, you
experience a new birth. You do this by turning from self to God (repentance) and
trusting Christ to come into your life to forgive your sins and to make you the
kind of person He wants you to be. You receive the Lord by faith through prayer,
as an act of the will. You must also confess the Lord Jesus Christ before men.
"If you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart
that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9).
God knows your heart and is not so concerned with your words as He is
with the attitude of your heart. If you clearly understand what Christ
accomplished on the cross and have considered carefully the demands He makes,
there is nothing to stop you from becoming a Christian. Now you should go
where you can be alone or in the presence of another Christian, get on your
knees before God and pray a simple prayer such as this:
"Lord Jesus Christ, I need You. I agree that I am a sinner and have sinned in my thinking
and speaking and acting. Thank you for dying on the cross for my sins. I have
counted the cost of following You. I repent and turn away from my past sins. I
open the door of my life and receive You as my Savior and Lord.
Thank you for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Make
me the kind of person You want me to be. Amen. "
Does this prayer express the desire of your heart? If it does, pray it right now, and Christ will
come into your life, as He promised.
What Next?
The Bible uses
two terms to describe what happens when people say Yes to God and join His
family. This experience, which was explained earlier, is being born again.
New Christians are part of God's family just as certainly as they are part
of their earthly parents' family. He is their Father, and they are His children.
(See John 3:3-8.) The other term used to describe this relationship is
adoption. Even though all humans are born in a condition that inevitably
leads to death, Christians are adopted into God's family and given all the
inheritance rights of God's Son. Because Jesus rose from the dead, those who
trust in Him will, too. Because Christians are part of God's family, they can
feel completely secure. He will not disown them or rewrite His will. He has
promised to be faithful to His children, and God always keeps His promises. As
children of God, Christians can have powerpower to follow Jesus even when the
way is hard, power to make Jesus known to others, power to love and to serve.
His children also have hope. No longer will they fear that death will ruin their
plans and destroy their relationships. Instead, they have confidence that God
will raise them to life in a new world where all is life and peace and joy.
Since Christians have opened the door to Christ and have come home
to God, they have acquired a new set of spiritual brothers and sisters-God's
other children on earth. It is important for God's family to meet together
regularly. As God's church with God's power, we can expect
miracles.
Time to Grow
People begin life in God's family just
as they began it in their parents' family — as babies. Baby Christians need to
be nurtured, protected, taught, and loved, and the church is the best place for
them to gain the support they need to grow tall and strong.
Baby Christians need rich nourishment, and no source is better than God's Word. The
Bible, a collection of 66 books, is a portable library that contains enough
nourishment for several lifetimes of rapid growth.
To learn more about
God's love for His children, read the short book of I John, near the
back.
To get better acquainted with Jesus, your Savior, read one of the
Gospels — Matthew, Mark, Luke or John.
To understand more about how
Jesus' death means life for you, read Romans.
To praise God for inviting
you into His family, read some of the Psalms (start with Psalm
100).
To Help You Grow
To help you grow in this new life, here
are some suggestions.
1. Tell a friend.
Is there someone you
know who would rejoice with you about what you just did-perhaps a pastor or
Christian friend? Tell him or her (through a visit, call or letter). Share the
excitement of your new commitment with someone else!
2. Read the Bible.
Do you have a Bible or at least the New Testament part of the
Bible? If not, buy one in a modem translation. You can also receive a free Bible
from Focus on the Family by writing, Focus on the Family, Colorado Springs, CO
80995 or (in Canada) P.O. Box 9800, Stn Terminal, Vancouver, B.C. V6B
4G3.
The Bible is God's Word, His message to mankind, and so it is
important to know what it says. Begin by looking up and reading the verses
listed in this article. Then read about a chapter a day beginning with the book
of Mark. Next you could read Philippians, then James and I John. A pastor or
Christian friend will be able to help you in your Bible study.
3. Talk to God regularly.
Make prayer a habit. This means talking to God about
anything, at any time of the day or night. It also means spending a "quiet" time
with Him where you meditate on His Word, tell Him of your love and devotion, and
talk to Him about others and their needs. In any relationship, communication is
vital.
4. Get involved in a church.
Churches are where God's
people gather to worship Him together, learn from the Bible, encourage each
other, and welcome new believers into God's family. Find a church near you that
does these things, and get involved. Your church should believe that the Bible
is the accurate Word of God, that Jesus Christ is God's Son, that He is fully
God and man, and that only through faith in Jesus Christ can a person have
eternal life.
You will still have many questions as you begin your new
life with God and His family of believers, but now you know the One who has the
answers.
The Ideal Family
Homecoming can be a joyous time, even
if the pumpkin pie crust is soggy and Great Uncle Herbert has forgotten his
table manners. But no earthly homecoming, no matter how memorable, can compare
with the joy of coming home to God.
God's love, after all, is the source
of all earthly love. It is stronger and more enduring than love between husband
and wife, parent and child, brothers and sisters. At the same time, God's love
strengthens our human ties and increases our love for those dear to
us.
This article explains why all human beings need God's love. It
explains how to respond to His invitation and become part of His family. But
there is one thing it cannot do: it cannot say "yes" to God for you.
If your heart is restless; if you find yourself longing for a home you've never
known; if you would like eternal life with Jesus that begins now and continues
in heaven where there is no suffering, sin, or death — say Yes to Jesus.
Join the family. Come home.
There's no better time than now.
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